Sunday, February 24, 2013

Life is more than food.


Luke 12:23 reads, "Life is more than food, and the body more than clothes."  I've considered printing out the phrase, "Life is more than food." and sticking it on the fridge, chip bags, and any other junk food or candy that gets brought into the house.  My wife, my boys and my God are more important to me than the food I eat.  Bad food affects my witness, my relationship to my wife and my ability to play with my boys.  But some days I think about the food I am going to eat than anything else.  Whenever I've packed an uninteresting food for lunch I've said out-loud to myself, "Life is more than food." Food is an addiction, and if I don't take care, it will become a god.  The truth extends beyond food. In the same verse it says that the body is more than clothes.  What is it in your life that you need to be reminded of it's submissive place.  What is it you need to be saying?

Life is more than food.
Life is more than the latest fashion.
Life is more than sex.
Life is more than alcohol.
Life is more than perfect grades.
Life is more than money.
Life is more than a totally clean house.
Life is more than perfectly behaved and athletic children.

Put God back in charge of your life and resist whatever wants to crowd him out.

Life is more than ____________.



Thursday, February 21, 2013

Sin's Callback Joke

Two guys were having a brick throwing contest, to see who could throw the brick highest in the air. The first one threw it pretty far. When it came back down, it cracked the pavement. The second guy said, "That was pretty impressive. But not as impressive as MY throw's gonna be." And he chucked it. And they waited....and waited.
But the brick never came down.

If you don't know the story of David and Bathsheba you can read it here.  The super quick version is that King David has sex with Uriah's wife Bathsheba and gets her pregnant. In order to hide his sin he has Uriah killed and marries Bathsheba.  A prophet by the name of Nathan tells David about a rich man with a lot of sheep who steals his poor neighbor's sheep to feed to a visitor.  Enraged, King David sentences the man to death! And the poor man is to be given four sheep to replace the one that was taken from him.  Nathan then utters the condemnation to David, "You are that man."

The King repents and God does not exact his own pronouncement of death...But God does promise that the fourfold reimbursement will occur.  That is the awful truth of sin.  It has terrible and far reaching consequences.

First there are the immediate results of sin.  For David it was the death of his first child with Bathsheba.  While we may not see such tragic a result, a parent can hurt a child and cause them sorrow. A husband or wife can cause anger, resentment or depression in their spouse.  Even hidden sins have a direct and immediate effect on our souls.

Then there are the callbacks.  In comedy, a callback is a reference a comedian makes to an earlier joke in a set. Callbacks are usually made in a different context and remind the audience of an earlier joke, creating multiple layers and building more than one laugh from a single joke. When used at the end of a set, callbacks can bring a comic's routine full circle and give closure to the set. Sin’s callbacks are not for comedy, but tragedy. David’s penchant for disregarding God’s laws for marriage show up again when his son, Amnon, rapes his half-sister, Tamar.  Tamar’s full brother Absalom ends up killing Amnon.  Absalom and David have a five year break in their relationship.  Absalom ends up trying to overthrow David’s thrown and has sex with David’s ten concubines on the same roof where David first spied Bathsheba.  Classic Devil comedy.  Absalom’s head gets stuck in a tree during a battle with David’s army and is stabbed in the heart with three javelins.  

Again, our children will probably never try to usurp our authority, but if we do not resolve sin and teach our children a better path we can lose them to the world.  If we sin again our children and do not seek their forgiveness, we can create breaches in the relationship that never gets mended.

Finally, there are the unseen results of our sins.  After David died, his son Solomon has his half brother Adonijah murdered for wanting to marry a girl they both liked. (Okay there was more to it than that.) 
There are some results of sin, that while we may not see them, are very, very real.  We have an entire generation of children growing up without fathers.  I applaud the women who are trying to provide, care and raise these kids.  But I have to ask, “Where are the men?” What kid of hurt will these kids have to endure knowing their fathers abandoned them.  These worthless men may never see the pain and struggle their sin caused, but they are to blame.  

If we mistreat or sin against our children, they may take that same sin and pain and inflict it on THEIR kids.
Thank the Lord that sin does not run rampant.  Thank the Lord that through the blood shed by Jesus we can find redemption.  But let us never take that grace for granted. As Romans 6 begins, “1 Well then, should we keep on sinning so that God can show us more and more kindness and forgiveness? 2 Of course not! Since we have died to sin, how can we continue to live in it? 3 Or have you forgotten that when we became Christians and were baptized to become one with Christ Jesus, we died with him? 4 For we died and were buried with Christ by baptism. And just as Christ was raised from the dead by the glorious power of the Father, now we also may live new lives.  

Let us never forget the serious and long reaching effect of sin.  And let us never forget the healing and restorative power of Jesus Christ.

A man and a woman were on a plane. The man lights up a cigar (this is back in the days when one could smoke on a plane) and the woman has a cat with her. Before the plane takes off, the woman asks the man to put out the cigar because the smoke is making her cough. He asks her to move the cat, since he's allergic to cats. They start yelling at each other, and finally the man reaches over, opens the emergency exit, and throws the cat out the door. The woman throws the cigar out the door.

The stewards and stewardesses manage to separate them and close the door, and the plane takes off without any more problems. Midway through the flight, one of the stewardesses looks out the window and is surprised to see the cat sitting on the wing!

And do you know what the cat has in its mouth? It's a brick!

Sunday, February 17, 2013

Footloose Updated (Origionally posted in Jan. 2011 on now abandoned blog.)


This woman currently embodies in my mind the current stated of the church and  our culture of Post-Modernity.  She wants to dance.  It doesn’t matter that she’s outside, she wants to dance.  It doesn’t matter if other people are watching, she wants to dance.  It doesn’t matter that she’s in traffic, she wants to dance.  Even as the invisible preacher declares the End of Days and the might of God, she wants to dance.  Ever and ever closer to the FIRE written on the road.   She wants to, she does.
The church is hollering out to people who want nothing more to be left alone to do their own thing.  If this woman hears the preacher, she has no interest in what he has to say.  Before I’d have called this silly or indulgent.  But for the Post-Modernist, this woman is life.  She has no shackles of social NAY personal responsibility.  In Post Modernity, she is doing exactly what is right, whatever she feels like doing.
And how about the preacher?  Yelling destruction through a megaphone!  When is the last time anyone listened to the guy yelling through the megaphone?  When I was in college, there was a preacher who’d come to the quad and preach at the students.  He’d speak of their sin and his sinless-ness. (I assume he could claim sinless-ness by the washing of the blood.)  Did the revival break out? No. How about the revelry? Yep.  They laughed at him.  Christians argued with him…but most ignored him.  I wonder if he went to bed satisfied with his witness. Did he say John 15:18 to himself,  “If the world hates you, know that it has hated me before it hated you.” Did he thank God for the hecklers?  Was he like John the Baptist, a voice crying in the wilderness, “Prepare ye the way for the Lord!”?
 
And where am I?  I’m the kid watching; half amused and dumbstruck.  “Now’s not the time to dance,” I say. And the Post-Modern dancer says, “Then don’t dance, but watch me do the mashed potato.”

UPDATE - 2/17/2013:  I am no longer amused nor dumbstruck. 2 Corinthians 4:7 reads, "But we have this treasure in jars of clay, to show that the surpassing power belongs to God and not to us."  I may never seems strong in the eyes of the culture, but I will not longer be rendered dumbstruck.  Because I do not need to be socially strong because the power belongs to God anyway.  All this earthen vessel needs to do is be faithful in loving, preaching, and reaching out. It is because of the might and majesty of God that now I dance with all my might.  But rather than leave the culture dumbstruck...I'm going to invite them to dance with me.

Be Generous With Your Spouse

     As the boys came in from the snow, they threw their coats down in the laundry room and sprinted off into the house yelling, "I'm going to be a Storm Trooper!" - a concept they just learned the previous night from their first viewing of "Star Wars."  As they ran away my wife said, "I wish my mom was here to do the snow things." "Why," I asked?  "Because when we were growing up," she continued as she picked up the boys damp coats and hung them on the drying rack, "my mom made the hot chocolate and put away the coats and all the things I don't feel like doing right now.  I guess she didn't feel like doing them then, either."  As she began to warm the milk on the stove, I pulled her into a big hug and told her, "I think you are a great mom and a wonderful wife."  Then we gave each other a little smooch.
     I did that because I know that from time to time my wife appreciates words of encouragement.  She has told me she appreciates them and I've seen how much they mean to her over the course of our ten year marriage.  I would do well to continue to keep encouraging her and giving her what she needs, just as Solomon met the needs of his wife in "Song of Solomon."
     Song of Solomon is an oft neglected book.  With its sensual language and repeated mention of "breasts" many Christians shy away from its study and preaching.  But as 2 Timothy 3:16-17 states, "All Scripture is breathed out by God and profitable for teaching, for reproof, for correction, and for training in righteousness, that the man of God may be complete, equipped for every good work."  So rather than shy away from its sensual tenor, we should be embracing the wisdom this book offers for Christian marriage.  
     One thing the book teaches us is to be generous in meeting our spouses desires, both sexual and relational.  Notice how Solomon bolsters his wife's esteem.  As she first describes herself she says in verse 1:5-6: 
I am very dark, but lovely,
    O daughters of Jerusalem,
like the tents of Kedar,
    like the curtains of Solomon.
 Do not gaze at me because I am dark,
    because the sun has looked upon me.
My mother's sons were angry with me;
    they made me keeper of the vineyards,
    but my own vineyard I have not kept.

     We learn several things about her.  Her skin is dark because her brothers have made her work in the vineyard where the sun beats down on her. Also, she is poor because she has not been allowed to have her own vineyard.  Influential ladies of that day were not expected to work in the fields, so a fair complexion was as standard of beauty.  And while she knows her worth, she worries that her husband, the king, will dislike her dark skin and poor social status.  In response Solomon repeatedly showers her with complements and affection; as in this passage from chapter 4:1-5:


Behold, you are beautiful, my love,
    behold, you are beautiful!
Your eyes are doves
    behind your veil.
Your hair is like a flock of goats
    leaping down the slopes of Gilead.
Your teeth are like a flock of shorn ewes
    that have come up from the washing,
all of which bear twins,
    and not one among them has lost its young.
Your lips are like a scarlet thread,
    and your mouth is lovely.
Your cheeks are like halves of a pomegranate
    behind your veil.
Your neck is like the tower of David,
    built in rows of stone;
on it hang a thousand shields,
    all of them shields of warriors.
Your two breasts are like two fawns,
    twins of a gazelle,
    that graze among the lilies.

     While we cannot delve into the historical significance of this similes, you can tell that he is attracted to her and lets her know it!  Does this mean you need to go to your spouse and tell her that her hair looks like a flock of goats?  Probably not, but it does mean that you need to be attentive to the needs of your spouse. 5lovelanguages.com is a website that can guide you in figuring out both you and your spouse's love language.  That way you can better meet each others' needs. But do not just choose a love language and start "speaking" it to your spouse.  Husbands, love your wife as Christ loves the church and seek to meet HER needs.  Wives, respect your husbands and determine what HIS needs are.  And pray for each other that God will focus your desires on each other so that you can say, as the Song of Solomon says, "I am my beloved's and my beloved is mine."